How to Test your Readiness for Finding your Soulmate
Are you still dating with excited anticipation of finding your true soulmate or frustrated and in pain from the repeated disappointments of poorly matched shidduchim or bad mistakes in the dating process?!? As time goes on, do you find yourself wondering, "When will he/she come"? Did you ever ask the difficult question lurking in the back of your mind, "Will he/she come?"
Through my own experiences, as well as the work I have done with hundreds of young women and men as a Shidduch Dating Coach over the past 30 years, my goal is to provide you with valuable information and help you actively advance with confidence and clarity through the shidduch dating process.
If you are willing to take the steps necessary to do the work of Knowing Yourself and identifying your true needs and core values in preparing for marriage, you will come away from my Coaching sessions feeling confident, balanced and much more clear about making the next date the one you've been waiting for... your true soulmate. You'll be prepared for making better choices about dating options, communicating more effectively, and becoming purposefully happy with making a well thought- out committment to your marriage partner, G-d willing, soon.
If you're willing to step up to the challenge of investing a short amount of time and effort in discovering what you know and "feel" about dating for marriage, in creating your vision of marriage, in learning effective communication skills, in examining your expectations about your role and your spouse's role in marriage, in learning what makes a successful marriage.... Devorah is the person to help you and now is the time to invest in the work that will prepare you to succeed in dating with the purpose of attracting your true soulmate.
Take some time to think and write out your expectations of married life. Answer the following questions:
1) Are you the person you fully want to be NOW?!!?
If not-what would you change in order to develop into the partner you want to become?
2) Do you have a "vision" of your ideal marriage? Define and/or describe your "perfect marriage" one year from now....i.e. what are the most important elements that define your relationship and describe your home life?
3) Do you expect to "fall in love"? How much "weight" will you place on the heart "knowing" your soulmate when you meet him/her on the first or second date? (rate 1-10: 1= almost nothing, 10= my heart will tell me all)
4) What personality traits characterize you as a unique individual and will contribute to your "perfect marriage relationship"?
If you feel you can answer these questions honestly and with clarity, you are very ready for a productive shidduch coaching process and well on your way to finding your ultimate soulmate soon, G-d willing.
Listen to the phone interview link on the Contact page for a description of the Shidduch Services and benefits you'll derive from working with Devorah.
Let's be in close contact for healthy and more productively satisfying shidduchim.